The Mike Horne Blog

In both teaching and consulting, I have watched leaders explain disengagement, resistance, and reluctance to take ownership in familiar terms: motivation, attitude, and commitment. Sometimes that is true. More often, people are responding rationally to the system around them. Every organization has a hidden curriculum. It teaches people what is safe, what is rewarded, what is ignored, and what actually matters. Over time, those lessons become part of the culture, even when they contradict what leaders say they value. This week’s article is about a pattern I see in nearly every organization I work with: your organization produces the behavior it rewards. If you do not like the behavior you are seeing, the place to look first is not the people. It is the system.

Every leader eventually inherits someone else's mess. A struggling team. A fractured culture. A strategy that never quite took hold. Leadership rarely begins with ideal circumstances. More often than not, it begins with accepting responsibility for problems we didn't create. That realization stayed with me after a recent dream and became the inspiration for this week's essay.

A dream involving two former leaders raised an unexpected question: What feedback might I have missed during my career? Drawing on experiences with coaching, autonomy, and leadership development, this week's article explores the blind spots we may unknowingly create for ourselves.